Expert Clinical Psychologist Müjde Yahşi gave important information about the subject. Parents arguing and fighting in front of their children can cause serious trauma as well as negatively affecting the development of children. A serious distress of trust may occur in children whose parents are in conflict.
Of course, problems can be experienced in every marriage, the important thing is how these problems are solved. If these unsolvable problems turn into conflict, it is very difficult to hide it from the child because the child easily feels all kinds of tension between the parents because they are in the same living area.The child who cannot think abstractly between the ages of 3-6 thinks that he is responsible for the conflict between the parents and blames himself.
Children who grow up amid family conflicts learn to adopt a problem-oriented approach, not a solution-oriented approach, just like their parents, and may experience similar conflicts in their own social life. Spouses need to solve problems on time before problems turn into conflict.
It should not be forgotten that unsolved problems harm the children of that house the most.
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